I am, however, adding a new, selfish item to this year’s Christmas list.  I would absolutely love it if you bought a gift certificate to your favorite restaurant, and then KEPT that certificate, and gave me a card that invited me to dinner.  A dinner for just the two of us.  No significant others, spouses, friends, etc.  just a quiet (or perhaps loud, if that’s your style) meal and a chance to catch up, and some good food to make my tummy as happy as my head and my heart.